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xXBloody_RosesXx
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 posted on 27-9-2009 at 06:24 AM
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Boyfriend Advice?
Okay.....
so, I have been having boyfriend troubles. I have a really big crush on this boy at school, and I have no idea how to attract him....
He's very nice, and if you look at the journal and my profile, you could learn more about him. XD Anyways, he is a really cool guy, and I want to get
to know him better. I've been talking to him more in class, plus, I'm going to invite him to a haunted house later this month. We'll see how that
goes...
Anyways, does anybody have any information on how I could attract him more? Any boyfriend advice? Please and thank you! 
I close my eyes and think
of a crimson red puddle
dripping from a petal
of a white rose
so pure and beautiful
is the flower made from love
as the blood drips more
and my tears start to grow
the pain from my wrists starts to numb
while the voices in my head stop
one more thing goes in my head
as the dream starts to disappear
the sweet velvet sound of your voice
and a smile you almost never gave.
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mimiru
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posted on 27-9-2009 at 06:56 AM
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Try talking to him about him. ^-^
"What kind of "insert something here" do you like?"
and things like that. That's worked best for ME anyway. The more you know about their likes and dislikes the better.
But again this can be different depending on the people. But it might not hurt to try it 
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Menya_Zovut_Shnur
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posted on 28-9-2009 at 01:31 AM
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just be nice and be yourself
good guys don't like girls who kid around
talk to him some more, and he'll respond
"Whoever doesn't miss the Soviet Union has no heart. Whoever wants it back has no brain." - Vladimir Putin
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posted on 28-9-2009 at 01:33 AM
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Stalk him until he gives in!! Lol, kidding
I'd say...Just be yourself and chat away don't cut corners though
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Brownee-Nazi
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posted on 28-9-2009 at 01:35 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Menya_Zovut_Shnur
just be nice and be yourself
good guys don't like girls who kid around
talk to him some more, and he'll respond |
Very true.
As an FYI, men are complex, as you may know. I personally would prefer being straightforward. I'm sure most would agree, especially in the sense that
he likes you and is too afraid to let you know. Therein lies the problem; neither of you would put it out there.
My advice, change that. Let him know.
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Yunie
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posted on 28-9-2009 at 03:15 AM
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Is he 13 as well? Talk to him about Halo. >_>
But in all seriousness, keep doing what you're doing. Don't exaggerate about yourself, be honest, you'd want him to like you for who you are, not
who you're pretending to be.
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kezz15
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posted on 28-9-2009 at 11:41 PM
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uhm get to know him for real. and then when you really know him then tell him he's cute or something haha
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DanceFuckerDance
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posted on 29-9-2009 at 12:00 AM
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You just have to be yourself.
Never change yourself for anyone, because if you try to change yourself, he will realize that.
Just do the things you normally do, and find interests that you share with him; you know, it will give you something to talk about with him.
Also, don't have your friends talk to him for you, most guys find that really annoying and you end up looking like a complete pussy who needs your
friends and can't think for yourself.
Also, wearing slutty clothes does not mean that you will attract him, and acting too physical or pushy in that manner might just drive him away.
You have to be subtle; don't come on too easy, and don't play hard to get.
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XxXPoeticxxxLullabyXxX
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posted on 29-9-2009 at 01:16 AM
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Pop the butt, and show the cleavage.
>_>
Today, I got a phone call from a restaurant confirming a 3:00 reservation for Batman. I had no idea who left the reservation or how they used my
number, but I told the waitress I was Robin and would check in with Batman then call her back. She hung up on me. MLIA.
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ROBOT.IN.DISGUISE
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posted on 30-9-2009 at 11:44 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by XxXPoeticxxxLullabyXxX
Pop the butt, and show the cleavage.
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Sounds like the girls in my local pub!
Just take things easy with him. Don't give off the vibe that you're overly into him, guys tend not to pick up on things like that quickly.
And fuck haunted houses, invite him to a gig or something! That's where the magic happens!!!
"Red sky at night, Angel Delight! Red sky in the morning... Angel Delight!"
"A tachycardic answer to a question never beat, An insomniac's response to
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posted on 30-9-2009 at 11:53 PM
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Be yourself, thats the easiest and most positive way to go about it. I've seen many instances where someone tried to change themselves where they
thought their crush would like them, and they ended up becoming unattractive. One thing I have found to be useful though is to not beat around the
bush. lol. Just hang around him for a while as friends so that you can get a feel of each other and how compatible you are, that should be first
before going into a relationship. If this haunted house thing works out and you two are enjoying spending time with each other, pull up your courage
and ask how he feels about you, and tell yours in turn.
I wish you luck! 
What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you.
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Mysty_Fox
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posted on 1-10-2009 at 12:14 AM
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Just talk to him... I was totally into my boyfriend who was a friend at the time, and didn't know that he liked me as well. It came down to a dance
we went to as a friends that we talked things out... And we've been together for almost a year now.
I stop- watching his
tears, falling faster
then rain slowly slipping away
I contemplate- glittering
water, flowing, rippling
tarnished hazy crimson
I see- fading dark
sequined with sparkling sad stars
and melancholy moon
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Mysterious-Rogue-Wolf
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posted on 1-10-2009 at 06:33 PM
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I don't know if my advice will be the best as I have a mysterious, but caring personality. Just be yourself ask him if he has a gf after a while.
That will hint it to him without being too obvious. The try to find things that you relate to. That should make him appreciate you more. Sometime
during or right after the haunted house, ask him if he would like to go out. I know it isn't simple, believe me there, but it on the people with
caring personalities.
~The Mysterious Wolf~
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 12:27 PM
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First of all you talk to him,
The you get him into a conversation enough to leave you an opening to drop the hint that maybe you guys should hang out someone.
NOW seal the deal and have a belligerent time together away from all distractions.
My thought process changes as I go.
As I go I become more set in my ways.
My ways become more apparent and you realize I am a little weird.
Being weird when most are normal is very entertaining.
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 04:19 PM
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Try speaking to him in a very simple, dude style language (eg. Halo, Skateboards, chicks. etc.) If that doesn't work; hit him upside the head with a
beer bottle and tie him up in your room.
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 04:40 PM
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just be urself,
if u rnt attracting him already then just show him the real u and if he dsnt like it then he isnt worth it
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Mysterious-Rogue-Wolf
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 05:46 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by xXPosionXx
just be urself,
if u rnt attracting him already then just show him the real u and if he dsnt like it then he isnt worth it |
Nicely put. These are words of wisdom and should always be followed. If they don't like you for who you are, you shouldn't change yourself for them.
You should find those that do like you for well...you.
~The Mysterious Wolf~
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 05:50 PM
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 05:53 PM
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The best thing to do is what you would normally do. Don't let your nerves or some such distract you from being the way you normally are. Don't be
too pushy either. Let him know how you feel about him, but don't be too forward. I am sure you can get him. I believe in you!
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Mysterious-Rogue-Wolf
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 05:56 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by glittertropen
The best thing to do is what you would normally do. Don't let your nerves or some such distract you from being the way you normally are. Don't be
too pushy either. Let him know how you feel about him, but don't be too forward. I am sure you can get him. I believe in you!
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That makes two of us. ^_^
~The Mysterious Wolf~
Your best bet of contacting me is here: wolf199280@live.com |
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 06:51 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by ^^ShadowFox^^
Try speaking to him in a very simple, dude style language (eg. Halo, Skateboards, chicks. etc.) If that doesn't work; hit him upside the head with a
beer bottle and tie him up in your room. |
See Shadow Fox knows where its at
My thought process changes as I go.
As I go I become more set in my ways.
My ways become more apparent and you realize I am a little weird.
Being weird when most are normal is very entertaining.
But not as entertaining as being bat shit crazy. |
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xXBloody_RosesXx
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posted on 4-10-2009 at 10:08 PM
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Ah, thankies to everyone. I'm going to invite him to a The Used concert as well. We've gotten to know eachother, and I found out he lives down my
street! What a coincidence! Plus, he gave me a hug and told me he thought my hair was cute! XD It's little, but I still liked it.
Oh, and he said I look really cute for a fatter girl, so my friend piped up and said I'll look like a thirteen year old Megan Fox by May!  He said he'll see how that goes. I wonder if that turned him on...? XD
Just kidding!
Anyways, I guess I'll see if there's a spark between us soon enough! Thanks for the advice! ^_^
I close my eyes and think
of a crimson red puddle
dripping from a petal
of a white rose
so pure and beautiful
is the flower made from love
as the blood drips more
and my tears start to grow
the pain from my wrists starts to numb
while the voices in my head stop
one more thing goes in my head
as the dream starts to disappear
the sweet velvet sound of your voice
and a smile you almost never gave.
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posted on 5-10-2009 at 12:48 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by xXBloody_RosesXx
Oh, and he said I look really cute for a fatter girl, |
That's what you kids consider compliments these days? =/
I would have been insulted.
Today, I got a phone call from a restaurant confirming a 3:00 reservation for Batman. I had no idea who left the reservation or how they used my
number, but I told the waitress I was Robin and would check in with Batman then call her back. She hung up on me. MLIA.
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xXBloody_RosesXx
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posted on 5-10-2009 at 02:10 AM
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Actually. yeah, I do consider a compliment. I don't get many, and I am a little overweight, so I take what I get. -nod- I thought that was actually
extremely nice of him, since his friends were around, and he could have easily made fun of me instead....
So, yeah, I suppose it was a little of a compliment. Yes, I was a bit insulted he called me fat, and I flicked him on the head, then he threatened to
demote, I said sorry, and he hugged me..... I find boys extremely complex. XD
I close my eyes and think
of a crimson red puddle
dripping from a petal
of a white rose
so pure and beautiful
is the flower made from love
as the blood drips more
and my tears start to grow
the pain from my wrists starts to numb
while the voices in my head stop
one more thing goes in my head
as the dream starts to disappear
the sweet velvet sound of your voice
and a smile you almost never gave.
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Mysterious-Rogue-Wolf
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posted on 5-10-2009 at 07:14 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by xXBloody_RosesXx
Actually. yeah, I do consider a compliment. I don't get many, and I am a little overweight, so I take what I get. -nod- I thought that was actually
extremely nice of him, since his friends were around, and he could have easily made fun of me instead....
So, yeah, I suppose it was a little of a compliment. Yes, I was a bit insulted he called me fat, and I flicked him on the head, then he threatened to
demote, I said sorry, and he hugged me..... I find boys extremely complex. XD |
lol. I must agree that some, if not most, of us are complex. The mysterious ones are the ones you need to look out for. They usually don't show what
they like. Take me for granted; I really can't show my emotions anymore after a life-changing experience a long time ago, but I do feel emotions
greatly. That is me though. It sounds like he likes you a lot, but I don't really know him, so I can't say anything.
~The Mysterious Wolf~
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